What’s a real relationship?
What’s a fake relationship? (aside from the publicly staged ones)
So. a chain of texts isn’t real conversation? 🤔
Sometimes folx communication styles are better with writing/texting, tbh. But, I also kinda get that for another who is more comfortable & prefer speaking…the text only or text mainly thing could become an opportunity.
-to learn that you have very different communication styles and…go from there. Act accordingly.
I appreciate honesty and loyalty. Authenticity and autonomy. A friendship and a partnership. The main ingredient is always love. Respect is paramount.
I appreciate communication in all forms:
Couple & individual therapy
To address any insecurity
& possible past traumas
& current triggers
I appreciate dates in the park drawing you stick figures…
Because drawing isn’t none of my gifts
I appreciate trips
To farmers & night markets
supporting local, street vendors
Experiencing all the Wonders of the world, going on Earth benders
Making you breakfast in bed, and for lunch; sea moss in a blender
I appreciate poetry and writing you love letters in cursive (apparently it’s ancient now)
Hearing the sound of your voice- whether on the phone or in person
Makes…the earth shift
& we achieve balance.
Not always easy & as humans, we are never perfect
But navigating this thing called life…your love and mine aligned…you damn right it’s worth it.
This. Is my version